Authentic On Air with Bruce Alexander

Don’t Shorten Your Story: Identifying Pivotal Moments and Individuals to Develop Your Character with Ted Speaker Taylor Doe

Don’t Shorten Your Story: Identifying Pivotal Moments and Individuals to Develop Your Character with  @TEDx  speaker Taylor Doe ( @taylordoe  )
Hello Authentic Audience! When you tell your story of how you reached success in life, who are the people you met and relationships you formed that helped you along the way? Do you say their names as you tell your story? Join me as I sit down with Taylor Doe and tackle these questions. Taylor is a TEDx speaker, tech company owner, thought leader and storyteller.
 
On episode 9 of Authentic On Air with Bruce Alexander, Taylor and I discuss…
 
…The question that started him down his line of work, when a kid in his life asked “I want one of the good jobs. How do people get the good jobs?”
…Serving others in unique ways, from his Valentine’s Day project to senior prom. 
…How shame stops successful people from fully telling their story, and saying the names of people who helped them reach higher levels of success. 
…Finding the nuance in people’s stories
…Being able to be authentic in the streets, and on the golf course
…Practical tips to help improve your public speaking and mitigating unknowns. 
 
You can find Taylor Doe on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tdoe/. His TEDx talk is available on YouTube “How People Get the Good Jobs” and if you are interested in having him speak or help you leverage your "and then moments" check out his website.
 
#andthenmoments #authenticconnections #podcast #podcastconversations #motivation #selfimprovement #personalgrowth

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I am an authenticity and identity coach and I wanted to create a podcast as a lead-gen tool, originally. As I started to look at what that might look like; it became less and less about my business and more and more about putting something of value into the world and creating opportunities to have healing and insightful conversations that would facilitate more authenticity in the world. This podcast was created as a space to explore authenticity and the variety of ways it can affect how we show up daily. Guests will range from CEO’s and entrepreneurs to stay-at-home moms and perpetual students. Every person in this world wakes up everyday and consciously or subconsciously makes a decision to enter the world as themselves or not and I want to explore the stories of how that decision has impacted peoples lives. By providing a variety of interviews, stories and resources I desire to create a community that promotes growth, acceptance and understanding for people who have felt alone, singled out, or bullied for being different. Life is a complicated puzzle and we are all pieces. I hope you will join me as I help find your fit.

Getting your Sh*t Together: Utilizing Routines and Mindset to Overcome Habitual Disorganization with Christina Rose, the Declutter Queen 👑

Welcome Authentic audience to another episode of Authentic On Air with Bruce Alexander. Our guest today is the Declutter queen, Christina Rose. Christina is a chronic disorganization specialist specializing in the mind, body, and home. She brings her passion for helping others to supporting individuals in overcoming the difficulties brought about by chronic disorganization. 
 
Do you often feel as if you’re constantly failing at keeping a routine, you can never fit in time for the gym or an adequate meal, and life is always chaotic? Join me as I talk with Christina Rose, the Declutter queen as we discuss the following:
 
…How she helps her clients work on their mind, body and soul to bring peace and organization into their lives. She truly helps them get their sh*t together! 
…Healing trauma from the root and reprogramming our brains for lasting change
…Making the conscious choice to lead a life very differently than that of our upbringing, and break generational trauma
…Disassociating from her life and showing up as the person everyone expected her to be. How playing this role drained her, and stopped her from personal growth
…Teaching her coaching clients systems and routines so they are able to actually change their lives.
 
You can find Christina on IG @declutterqueenok

Hitting the Brakes: Setting Boundaries to Align Expectations with Sustainable Performance with Regan Shorter

Hello to my Authentic audience! Bruce here. Join me as I talk to Regan Shorter, a photographer and content creator based in Puerto Rico and Oklahoma. We walk through how she got started in her industry to all the lessons she has learned as an introvert in the creative freelance world. Regan is my former neighbor and someone who has openly shared her knowledge with me to help my own growth. She has the ability to make people feel seen, even when it drains her introvert battery. When she isn’t working with clients, or as a Joby creator, she shares tutorials for other creators and her travel experiences on her instagram and YouTube channel. 
 
Highlights:
 
…The journey from marketing major in college, trying (and failing) at different jobs, until she took a risk to branch out into photography and YouTube.
…Challenges and mistakes she learned along the way that she used to improve boundaries and communication with future clients. 
…Learning the speed at which she works best, knowing a slower pace is more sustainable and prevents burnout
…Being discerning about people she lets into her life and honoring her more private nature. 
Find more of Regan Shorter @regan.shorter and @by.Regan on Instagram and Regan Shorter for some great YouTube Content!

Acknowledging Your Imperfections: Allowing Our Mistakes to Shape Us For the Better with Regina Joy Lane

Welcome to episode 6! I sit down with Regina Joy Lane, a lifelong entrepreneur, mother, wife, DEI consultant, keynote speaker, podcast host, and community centered woman. She is passionate about helping others find their purpose and joy. Regina is a truly authentic person who has pivoted many times in her life and allowed her mistakes to become fuel for her personal growth. 
Highlights we discussed:
 
Regina’s first business, how she built a small stationery business into a full scale marketing agency and then selling most of it to be there when her children needed her. 
What she learned, and how she navigated, leaving a 20 year marriage. Learning to co-parent and build new, healthy habits for herself.
Learning the values of having restorative hobbies and true rest. 
Open dialogue about parenting mistakes, and apologizing to our kids when we realize the trauma we have passed down.
Her journey to starting her own podcast, figuring it out as she goes and enjoying the journey. 

Being Secure in the Uncertain: Carving through others expectations to find your own path in life with Evelyn Smith

Hello, listeners! Your host Bruce Alexander here! Join me as I take you on an extraordinary journey through an episode that's filled to the brim with insightful conversation and profound revelations. In this installment, I'm thrilled to be joined by the incredible Evelyn Smith! Evelyn also known as Eve is a, multiple year contestant for Ms. Oklahoma, a recent university graduate, and enlightened soul embracing her self and being and example to others Together we dive headfirst into captivating discussions about identity, personal growth, authenticity, and the art of navigating life's twists and turns.
Throughout our engaging exchange, Evelyn Smith takes us along her remarkable path of self-discovery, emphasizing the pivotal role of recognizing and embracing core values. We delve deep into the subject of societal expectations, vulnerability, and the transformative power of staying true to oneself—no matter the pressures from the outside world.
 
As we progress through the conversation, Evelyn navigates various life domains, from her ambitions in the professional realm to the intricate tapestry of her personal relationships. Her stories of triumph over adversity underscore the incredible potential that challenges hold for catalyzing personal development and empowerment.
 
Our discussion also unearths the profound significance of mentors and supportive communities in nurturing personal growth. She shares heartwarming anecdotes about mentoring that truly highlight the incredible impact that investing in the growth of others can have on our own journey of transformation.
 
Later in the show, we shine a spotlight on effective communication—guided by the principle of understanding before seeking to be understood. Smith shares invaluable insights into the art of meaningful sharing, emphasizing the importance of timing and relevance in our interactions.
 
And finally, we wrap up with a reflection on my own transition into the world of podcasting. A journey that seeks to embody authenticity and provides a platform for guests to openly share their unique stories and experiences.
 
In closing, I encourage all of you to embark on your own journey of self-discovery, armed with self-love and a commitment to personal growth. So, join me on "Authentic On Air" as we weave together an inspiring tapestry of conversations that celebrate authenticity, encourage self-discovery, and foster deeper connections with ourselves and others.
 
Highlights:
- Evelyn's early introduction to affirmations by her mother and how they shaped her self-confidence.
- The importance of genuine connections and her desire to be a role model for others.
- Embracing uncertainty and learning to trust the process of personal growth.
- Navigating toxic relationships and the power of stepping away from harmful situations.
- Evelyn's aspirations and her mission to leave a positive impact on the community.
 
Disclaimer: The podcast promotes authenticity and personal growth but is not a substitute for professional mental health advice. Listeners struggling with mental health issues are encouraged to seek professional assistance.

Communicating across Cultures: Representing yourself while respecting others with Derrick Sier Part 2

Hey there, it's Bruce Alexander from "Authentic On Air"! I just had an enlightening chat with my mentor, Derek Sier. We had such a good conversation I had to put it into two episodes!
My guest is a remarkable guy who is committed to uniting people and organizations in Oklahoma City. He's all about community, connection, and mentoring. We delved into some fascinating topics like the struggle of staying authentic while making small compromises to reach our goals. It's not about right or wrong; it's about challenging ourselves and growing closer to our identity.
We also discussed the importance of communication and understanding different perspectives. Derek emphasized the need for nuance when engaging with others as assumptions can lead to misunderstandings. It's vital to approach conversations with curiosity and respect for each other's experiences.
Our conversation was thought-provoking and eye-opening. Derek's passion for bringing people together is truly inspiring, and I'm grateful he joined me on the show.
If you have any thoughts on today's episode, feel free to reach out on Instagram, Facebook threads, or LinkedIn @AuthenticIdentityManagement. And don't forget to subscribe to our YouTube channel @AuthenticBruce for bonus content and uncut conversations with video!
Thanks for tuning in today! Until next time!

Communicating Across Cultures: Representing yourself while respecting others with Derrick Sier Part 1

Hey there, it's Bruce Alexander from "Authentic On Air"! I just had an enlightening chat with my mentor, Derek Sier. We had a few technical hiccups, but hey, I'm still learning the ropes!
My guest is a remarkable guy who is committed to uniting people and organizations in Oklahoma City. He's all about community, connection, and mentoring. We delved into some fascinating topics like the struggle of staying authentic while making small compromises to reach our goals. It's not about right or wrong; it's about challenging ourselves and growing closer to our identity.
We also discussed the importance of communication and understanding different perspectives. Derek emphasized the need for nuance when engaging with others as assumptions can lead to misunderstandings. It's vital to approach conversations with curiosity and respect for each other's experiences.
Our conversation was thought-provoking and eye-opening. Derek's passion for bringing people together is truly inspiring, and I'm grateful he joined me on the show.
If you have any thoughts on today's episode, feel free to reach out on Instagram, Facebook threads, or LinkedIn @AuthenticIdentityManagement. And don't forget to subscribe to our YouTube channel @AuthenticBruce for bonus content and uncut conversations with video!
Thanks for tuning in today! Until next time!